Your Inner World

➤ You feel like your body and vagina are broken and like you’ve failed as a woman.

➤ When you’re not worrying about what others think of you, you compare yourself to others leaving you feeling not good enough and feels like a painful reminder that you’re STILL not there yet.

➤ You lack the confidence to be your authentic self for fear of being judged or rejected and this keeps you hiding and small or worse, pushing away the people that care about you.

➤ You aren’t sure you even deserve love, happiness, and pleasure.

Your Dating Life

➤ You can’t bring yourself to talk about it with potential partners because you’re terrified of the rejection, so you reject and push people away instead.

➤ You don’t feel good enough and worry all that time that if you do find Mr Right that he will leave you when he finds out.

➤ You feel like there is no point in dating, why bother, all you can think to yourself is nobody will want or accept me.

Your Relationships

➤ Your partner is doing his best to be supportive, but you sense his frustration, which leaves you feeling hopeless and worthless, you’ve had thoughts of leaving him because you think he deserves better.

➤ You feel deep guilt and shame and like you are letting your partner down, your sex drive has plummeted and you worry he might leave you.

➤ Your relationship is taking so much strain and the distance between you two keeps growing. Any hope of creating a beautiful family one day feels like it’s disappearing more and more each day.

Your Intimate Life

➤ You are anxious all the time and avoid all touch and intimacy to avoid letting things go further intimately.

➤ You are frustrated because it feels like it’s ruining your life, but you can’t bring yourself to do it, you resist, procrastinate, hold yourself back to avoid the pain at all cost!

➤ There are times when you have pushed yourself to please him, gritted through the pain just to satisfy him, leaving you in tears and so much pain.

Everything you are going through right now and what you feel emotionally, mentally, and physically is completely validated. Vaginismus is not your fault, you are not broken and you can heal yourself. You deserve love, happiness, sexual freedom and so much more!

Diving deep within

Getting to the root of it all…

You’re here because you are drawn to creating a better life for yourself and healing yourself sexually. Before I go into in the powerful processes I use to help women heal themselves, it is very important that you understand what vaginismus is and what it isn’t.

The experience of vaginismus or dyspareunia (sexual pain) is widely misunderstood and is not a disease or sexual disorder. It is a body response. I’m going to say that again, IT IS A BODY RESPONSE.

It is not a hymen problem or that your vaginal canal is too small or too tight.

Vaginismus also isn’t consciously chosen, created or desired so it can leave you feeling confused, in pain and frustrated as hell!

It is an experience resulting from a tensing or contracting of the vaginal muscles, making sex or other forms of penetration painful or impossible.

So you might be thinking, well what is causing me to tense my muscles then?

That’s the million dollar question beautiful…

…And exactly what I’m here to help you find out!

Although the manifestation of vaginismus is physical, the causes of it are psychological and emotional. 

The tensing of your pelvic floor muscles is a result of subconscious belief patterns and unconscious learned behaviours driven by past events, fear and anxiety.

You don’t mean to do it, it just happens and it’s not your fault.

There are many different causes of these unconscious learned patterns and behaviours so the cause is unique to every woman experiencing painful penetration and not one specific thing.

I help women from all over the world get to the root cause of why they experience painful penetrative sex by using powerful subconscious mindset work and deep inner healing embodiment work so that they can explore their sexuality, experience pleasure, and sexually thrive.

Here are some of the processes I use to help my clients overcome vaginismus

Taking a holistic approach and addressing the emotional, mental, and physical components is paramount in your healing journey.  It takes more than only looking at the physical aspect when healing vaginismus.

Incorporating embodiment practices that invite safety into your nervous system. Without feeling a level of safety in your body, your pelvic floor will continue to contract and tighten in an effort to protect yourself from pain.

Using advanced hypnotherapy to access the root causes behind why you unconsciously tighten your pelvic floor muscles. Once this is revealed, pain-free penetration and experiencing pleasure becomes your new reality.

Showing you how to create a better connection to your body through profound breathwork practices and other specialized tools that can open you up to extraordinary pleasure and a deep and powerful consistent self-love.   

Conscious thought-provoking processes to help you discover and get things right inside of your sexuality, and inside of your body so that you can fall in love with yourself and your pleasure in a way that you have always deserved.

And so much more…

All sessions are done online using Zoom Video Conferencing allowing you to have powerful healing transformations in the comfort of your own home.